Everyone seeks companionship. That's how we are. We all seek a partner in life. However this leads to the false belief that someone is better than no one, even if that someone isn't right for us. But that companionship should be found in ourselves before we search in others. Before we can have a good relationship with others, we must have a good relationship with ourselves. First, know yourself. Your strengths, weaknesses, likes, dislikes, your family, friends, everything. Be happy with who you are. Once you find this, you'll immediately start to reject unhappy relationships because you'll know it was never right for you. When you find true happiness, you'll know it.